Friday, January 6, 2012

Bearing with and Forgiving One Another


Ephesians 4:1–2 (NKJV)  1I, therefore, the prisoner of the Lord, beseech you to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called, 2with all lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love.

As believers who have been called “out of darkness to His marvelous light”, we have a manner in which we should live.   Paul calls us to this lifestyle when he calls us “to walk worthy of the calling with which you were called.”

He then begins to describe some of the characteristics of this lifestyle, “lowliness and gentleness, with longsuffering, bearing with one another in love.”   Al Broom described this concept in this way, “The word ‘bear’ in Ephesians means to be tolerant toward Christians: to bear with them; to patiently endure their idiosyncrasies and weaknesses; to have a forgiving spirit toward others who may sin against us.”[1]

In Colossians 3:12–13 (NKJV) it says , “12Therefore, as the elect of God, holy and beloved, put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness, longsuffering; 13bearing with one another, and forgiving one another, if anyone has a complaint against another; even as Christ forgave you, so you also must do.”   We are to clothe ourselves with these traits.  We forgive those who wrong us remembering the manner in which Christ forgave us.  He forgives completely.  He forgives and does not remind us of our sin. He forgives and never brings it up again.  When we get a true understanding of the forgiveness that we have in Christ Jesus we can more easily forgive others in the same way.

What Paul is describing here is sanctification, the ongoing process by which a sinner is made holy, separated, by God.  Forgiveness is just one aspect of that.  As we are granted a fuller and fuller knowledge of what God has forgiven on our behalf we should find it easier and easier to overlook the shortcoming of those around us and reach out to others with “tenderness, kindness, meekness, and longsuffering.”   And may others do the same for us. 

This lesson is a final installment from “Putting Value in the Local Church.”  If you would like to be challenged on many of the other “one another” commands of Scripture look back to episodes 32-36 and 43-46.  

The video version of this can be viewed at www.youtube.com/churchoflittleton  FW # 55


[1] Broom, Al & Lorraine, One to One Discipling, Multiplication Ministries, pg. 61

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